Anonymous asked: I'm in a relationship with this guy & we're both Christians. We once went to a seminar called "true love waits" and both made a promise to stay pure until after marriage. As teenagers, we began to talk about sex and we began to want it. We both broke the promise of staying pure as we gave into sex, and did it twice. Just recently, I thought about it & really regret it. I feel really bad as we're so young. How can I be pure again? I am finding it hard to talk to God about it. Please pray for me.
I believe it is more then possible to become a virgin again.
Maybe not physically, but spiritually yes.
A man named Nicodemus once asked Jesus a very similar question he asked ”How can an old man go back into his mother’s womb and be born again?” (John 3:4) and Jesus replied by talking about a second spiritual birth.
“Humans can reproduce only human life, but the Holy Spirit gives new life from heaven.” - John 3:6
Through the Holy Spirit your past can be transformed but you have to trust in Jesus. The apostle Paul talked about this in a letter He sent to a group of Christians in Greece:
“Surely you know that people who do wrong will not get to enjoy God’s kingdom. Don’t be fooled. These are the people who will not get to enjoy his kingdom: those who sin sexually, those who worship idols, those who commit adultery, men who let other men use them for sex or who have sex with other men, those who steal, those who are greedy, those who drink too much, those who abuse others with insults, and those who cheat. In the past some of you were like that. But you were washed clean, you were made holy, and you were made right with God in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11
So, in order for you to become a virgin spiritually you have to humble yourself before God, ask what you need and God will begin to work in your life. You have to trust Him.
Once again, you might not be a virgin in the physical sense but you will be a virgin in the spiritual sense meaning you have been made new in God’s eyes.
God bless! I’m praying for you <3