Anonymous asked: I'm in a really tough situation. My friend is really depressed from her break up with her boyfriend and the recent death of a family member. And she is completely drawing away from God, she thinks he has abandoned her and doesn't care. I don't know how to help her! What are some good bible verses/stories to show her God does care! And he will never leave her, she wont listen to anything i say :/

The truth is, nobody’s life is a free ride. 

We all face different challenges, we all confront pain in our lives. We all confront troubles, we all face different fears. We all deal with our failures.  

There’s so many things that we’ve let rip us off from what God’s called us to do.. I feel like life’s too short for that. And I don’t know when it will be, but I know that between now and then, each of us has got a lot of living to do. 

 Every single day, I feel like God gives us opportunities. And I pray that we wouldn’t restrict our faith to a time when we’re just together, in church or with other Christians, but that we would understand God is with us. 

When we say that “I know that you’re with me”. it’s a true confession, God is with us. 

He’s with you, everyday, each moment. In the good times, in the bad times, in the trials, in the triumphs.. Though it all, He’s with you. 

My prayer is just that we be aware of that. And so as we go about what we’re called to do. As we go about our daily days. As we go back to our friends, our family at school, our work places… wherever it is, that we be aware of the fact that, God is with us. He says He’s with us always. Till the end of the age. [Matt. 28.20] 

It’s the truth. And I couldn’t do life without Him. Without Him it would be meaningless and be worth nothing.  

And the fact is, we are going to face troubles, we are going to face trials, there’s going to be hard times..

but in the midst of it He says, “take heart, for I have overcome the world.” 

Jesus has overcome it all. And in the end of it all, for His glory, for His praise. Everything is going to be reversed. Everything is going to be flipped upside down. The world as we know it will be turned on its head.

And we’ll all realize and we’ll all see, that man, thou king, thou risen saviour. Jesus.

We’ll be keeping you and your friend in our heart and in our prayers. 

Anonymous asked: Lately I've slipped away from my faith. When I pray, it feels like no one is listening, like I'm talking to myself. When I read the Bible, my heart doesn't fill up with joy (probably because I'm too stupid to understand the context of it) I've slipped up and cut again, and I'm even questioning my beliefs. I'm sorry for venting to you guys, but I knew you guys would listen. Thank you.

Hi! 

GOD LOVES YOU! :D

We need to focus our mind on the truth and not on emotions…!

The more we start letting emotions get the best of us, we neglect the truth!

We will pray for you!

Here are some verses to help you!

Psalm 34:17 – The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles.

Isaiah 43:2 – When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.

Psalm 30:5 – For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime; weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.

I Peter 4:12-13 – Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.

Isaiah 61:3 – and provide for those who grieve in Zion— to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the LORD for the display of his splendor.

Isaiah 40:31 – but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

II Corinthians 1:3-4 – Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.

Romans 8:38-39 – For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Philippians 4:8 – Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.

Psalm 147:3 – He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

Isaiah 41:10 – So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

I Peter 5:6-7 – Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.

BHFJ

Anonymous asked: Hey, I saw the anons post about depression as Christians. I've been dealing with some intense depression lately (not like me at all, I'm usually a very happy person). It's been going on for nearly half a year now. I don't know what to do...I'm not motivated to pray or read my Bible at all although when I do I feel better. Any help? Thanks guys :)

Aim to work on the causes of your depression, not just the symptoms.

Scripture points to many issues of sin or conflict that can affect your emotions; most counselors would agree that depression can result from other underlying issues. Don’t just worry about the depression itself; check to see what other problems need attention.

Realize that you can’t base life on your emotions

Christians base life on truth, not feelings. Philippians 4:1 commands us to rejoice (whether we feel like it or not!). And James 1:2 asks us to “Consider it all joy when we fall into various trials.” Notice that James doesn’t tell us to feel joyful; he tells us to reckon, to choose to think about your situation as a spot where you can have joy.

Faith 

Choosing to trust truth rather than your feelings may require a lot of faith. And if that is what we mean by asking if faith can solve depression, then faith may be enough in some cases. Trusting what God says rather than your feelings is certainly a more realistic approach to life!

Heed God’s advice

Choosing to trust truth rather than your feelings may require a lot of faith. And if that is what we mean by asking if faith can solve depression, then faith may be enough in some cases. Trusting what God says rather than your feelings is certainly a more realistic approach to life!

Be Blessed

Sanica

Anonymous asked: Hey I havnt been doing so well lately. Whats the difference between making yourself depressed and the enemy doing it? Cuz i feel like its just me, and if it is just some part of me doing it to myself then i should be able to just snap myself out of it right? I guess any kind of advice would help. Thanks for your help guys

Depression is a complex topic.
First, you’re a three-part being. You’re a spirit, you have a soul, and you have a body. 1 Thess 5:23 supports that we’re a three-part being. “Now may the God of peace make you holy in every way, and may your whole spirit and soul and body be kept blameless until our Lord Jesus Christ comes again.” Spirit, soul, and body! Our spirit is the real us, and should be over our body and soul. 

A born-again believer is not depressed in their spirit. Depression only exists in the soulish and fleshly realm. It is ALWAYS from the enemy.  Depression exists due to the fall of man and has been completely paid for by Jesus regardless of if it is illness or demonic/sin related. 

Either way, there is freedom in Jesus. Believe on him for healing and deliverance. Meditate on his goodness. We’ll be praying for you.

-Tyler

Anonymous asked: What is your view on taking antidepressants?

I think it’s fine to take them if you really need them.

Also keep in mind that our God is a God of healing!

&He can heal a n y t h i n g.

When you ask God for healing in your life, It’s already Gods will, He hears you, and He wants to heal you. 

“For all the promises of God in Him are Yes, and in Him Amen, to the glory of God through us.” - 2 Corinthians 1:20 

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.” - Matthew 7:7-8 

“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” - Mark 11:24

Also read Psalm 42 to see what Assir, Elkanah and Abiasaph did when they felt depressed. c:

“He was pierced for our transgressions, He was crushed for our sins; the punishment that brought us peace was upon Him, and by His stripes we are healed.” Isaiah 53:5

God bless!!! <3

- aramis

Anonymous asked: on the subject of lying. what if you did it to protect someone? or even hide things. like my mother and father who have medical issues can't handle a lot and if i was to tell them how deep my depression was it would stress them out. i know it's a sin but should i tell them the entire truth and not do it again or what would be the best course of action?

I’m not going to answer this from a lying perspective but from the perspective from your depression. You need to get help. This help should include receiving prayer for healing. Yes, depression is something we can be healed of. People will disagree and say “someone should go to a doctor” like depression is different from any other sickness. Jesus paid for physical, emotional, and mental healing. 

You can also receive Christian counseling which God uses to bring healing. 

I’m not against medical science and there are medicines you can take.  Medicines, however, aren’t God’s best and medicine often has side-effects. I’m not saying for someone to drop meds and believe for healing, but I am saying it’s God’s will to heal. 

-Tyler

Anonymous asked: So I have been been a Christian my whole. I was the kind of christian that believed In God but lived a whole different way.... The past 6 months I have been trying to get to know God. I've been hungry for his word and desperate for his holy spirit and just knowing that God is there, and its almost as if I get nothing. I've been praying for peace at mind and understanding of his word. I want to be in love with Jesus,I want to be a powerful women of God but don't know how...

Thats awesome! God wants everything of you, and you want everything of God! This is the beginning of a relationship with He!

God tell us in Luke 11:9 “So I say to you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” God is desperate for your love! You only have to tell Him: God, I want to see your glory!, God I need you more than everything! and He will run to you, like prodigal son story “So he got up and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion for him, and ran and embraced him and kissed him”(Luke 15:20) “But we had to celebrate and rejoice, for this brother of yours was dead and has begun to live, and was lost and has been found.” (Luke 15:32) That’s a beautiful story!

And is good go to the church and and share songs, verses and God’s presence with your spiritual family! And eventually you will see the spiritual fruits!

We will pray for you! Blessings!

-Matias

Anonymous asked: can't stop crying :( I hate crying. I just want to be with God already, please :( Why does he have me here?

Life can be hard. There were times I felt like that too. You are not alone, there are many people with your same feelings. It is not your time to be with God. We cannot make that choice. God has special plans for you, but they are not yet revealed. I learned to never ask God, “why?” but to ask God what He wanted me to learn from this. 

When I look back at my whole life, I understand why I had to go through so many troubles.

Know that God is watching over you. His hands and arms are open waiting for you. All you have to do is ask. Ask Him to forgive you for your thoughts and any sin you have committed. Tell Him that you accept His will to be done in your life. Nothing can be worse than what He went through. What we have to suffer is nothing.

Jesus said, carry your cross and follow me. Ask Him to help you carry it because it is too heavy. Seek prayer from your church. In the name of Jesus, you are free from those chains that bind you. Claim it and believe it. Give your heart to God and accept Him as your Savior. God truly loves you, and believe me He is with you.

Listen to this song: The Father’s Song.

Love 

Lety :)

Anonymous asked: please help me. God has been silent for months now, and i am going through terrible depression. I can even feel him, please pray for me. I know that hes still here but i cant feel him any longer

Sometimes I have felt distant from God. Sad but true. I felt like he wasn’t listening to my prayers or even cared to. But now I know that, that’s a whole lot’o bologna from ol Mista Deceiver, also known as Satan. Truth is God is always with you, he’s always listening to you, and he always cares. So don’t let satan fool you. If you want to feel close to God, you have to spend time with him. Talk to him everyday. He’s listening to you even if you don’t think he is. Also read your bible everyday! Don’t let it just sit on your shelf gathering dust, open it up and read it. God’s word is in the Bible and he speaks to you through it.  In James 4:8 it says: “Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you.” 

We are praying for you. Stay strong.

God Bless.

-BHFJ Team