Anonymous asked: I know this is a repeatedly asked question. Im addicted to pornography and masturbation and every time i do this i feel so remorseful and guilty so i ask god for his forgiveness and mercy but the problem is i keep on repeating this sin over and over even though i tell myself i shouldnt do it again. HELP : desperate 15 year old guy.
You know friend, The hardest part is admitting your sin.
Masturbation is lust based. And lust is a very heavy spirit that is attacking many people across the earth. But the good news is that it’s not something that can’t be overcome with God’s help.
Jesus said that if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. For it’s better to enter eternal life with only one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell. (Matthew 18:9) Now I know that sounds pretty violent but what He point He was trying to get across is that if you’re dealing with something that is keeping you from God (masturbation) and because it’s building a spiritual distance between you and God, you need to get up and DEAL WITH IT VIOLENTLY. You need to tell the enemy, “I don’t care what you say or what you’re tempting me to do but I’m not going to do it! I REFUSE TO FALL INTO THIS SIN AGAIN AND I WON’T FALL INTO THIS SIN AGAIN ‘CAUSE JESUS IS WITH ME AND WHILE I MAY BE WEAK, HE IS STRONG. AND GOD WILL PROVE STRONG IN MY WEAKNESS. CASE AND POINT.”
And begin reading your Bible more. God’s word is your sword against all demons and all temptations and all evil things (Psalms & Proverbs). And above all things. Ask God to help you. I have no doubt that what you’re going through has already been overcome, but you need to just believe it and start working hard for it. Ask God to guide you and to help you get closer to Him at a full surrender. And when you do that, you’ll see you got a stronger side over any type of lust.
God knows your heart. We’ll be keeping you in prayer for strength, kid.
Anonymous asked: thoughts of sex are pouring into my head. probably from pornography. im in a relationship and i never let lustful thoughts come about my girlfriend. but lately im struggling so hard with thoughts and lust. I dont wanna ruin my relationship, i dont want to dishonor her, i dont want to lose my purity or take hers. i pray evryday, but i want to get closer to god. cause lately ive been falling. doubt, depression, porn, horribly destructive thoughts. Im so broken. i need christ.i need love
Heidy ho, neighbor!
You know, lust is not an easy thing to avoid being tempted from. Especially if you were before or are still finding yourself captive to pornography.
But there’s good news for you tonight, and that good news is that the fight that you are in has already been won because Jesus has already overcome it all.
And all you need to do is chase hard after God’s heart and ask for His help.
If God tells you to put your relationship on hold for a few months because He wants to work in your life, then do it.
It doesn’t matter what you’re girlfriend says, listen and do what God tells you to do and all will go right. And if she breaks it off with you because she can’t “wait” for you, then she’s not the one that God has for you. And if she is the one that God has for you but still breaks it off, then God will bring her back into your life within His perfect timing.
And last, trust in God with all your heart kid, it’s with the cool kids do.
the rest will all just fall into place.
Anonymous asked: "All the prophets testify about him that everyone who believes in him receives forgiveness of sins through his name." (Acts 10:43) So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall! No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. (1 Corinthians 10:12-13) -for the person dealing with lust.
Anonymous asked: guys tell me a verse that would help me in the process???.... by the way thanks for reading,
YAHWEH. Our God. Our Saviour. Our Dad and King. seeing us. knowing us. knowing that we would fail Him time and time again. knowing that we would make a complete mess of things, still loved us enough in advanced to give what was most dearest to Him; His Son Jesus, to step down into this broken world of ours and to live a perfect life.. to live a perfect life and to die as a perfect sacrifice— to perfect some very imperfect people (you and me). and the bible says that in that moment, He did everything that He needed to be done, for everyone. and that is good news tonight for me and that is good news for you.
I want you to know that you are forgiven because you have asked to be forgiven.
You see, God’s grace knows no end and above all, God knows your heart and He loves you dearly.
God knows that pornography isn’t an easy thing to overcome. And I strongly believe that God has already begun to work in you. He sees your heart and He sees your desire to change. And because of that, I tell you the truth tonight, God is very pleased with you and He loves you very much.
Pornography is a demonic spirit that builds its chains around a person— to forcefully pervert the perspective of God’s naturality. These chains act weeds and only live to suck the life out of you.
Chains can only be broken by God. but the good news is that God can and wants to break those chains off of you for forever.
So how can this be done?
The best thing you can do, is simply pray righteously and declare freedom persistently.
God gave you a voice that can speak life or death. (Proverbs 18:21) And God gave you authority over demons (Matthew 4:10). You need to rebuke, tie, bind and reprimand the enemy away from your life and strongly command it to depart from your life and from your home. It’s important that you put on your full spiritual armor day in and day out (Ephesians 6:10-18) and cover yourself with the blood of Christ Jesus. Also, declare yourself as free from anything that is adultery or lust or pornographic.
The enemy came only to steal. kill. and destroy. (John 10:10). He desperately wants us to fall away from God’s plan, and so he’ll do anything possible to get us to fall. Recognize the who’s and how’s and when’s for how the enemy tempts you into sinning.
You gotta be on your game and read God’s word and know His word. When Satan tempted Jesus in desert, Jesus used scripture to overcome Satan’s temptations. (Matthew 4:1-11) This shows us that scripture knowledge is needed to be able to overcome temptation. It also tells us that when we know and study the word, it stays in our thoughts (pure thinking) righteous living.
I hate to say it, but the enemy is going to tempt you and attack you like crazy. He knows that you want to live a life that pleases God, and that simply angers him. The trials are going to be hard for a few weeks (James 4:7) but if you stay focused on God, read His word daily, rid yourself from anything and anyone that is going to be a road block, throw away anything that provokes sexual thoughts, listen to deep worship music and awesome praise and above all, ask God for strength, for guidance and for wisdom. Have faith, trust in the Big Guy Upstairs and believe that you are free. By your faith, it will come to be.
Stay strong. and take heart in J E S U S. because H E has overcome it all. (John 16:33)
What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be against us?
- Romans 8:31
Anonymous asked: i have trouble with pornography, i had read those smut fiction and stuff like that,the enemy tempts me with fleshly lust in different forms, and i could feel the flesh and spirit battling in me sometimes... its really and odd feeling,.. i know its a process and i wont simply be "CURED" in like a week,and im declaring in faith that i wont be struggling with lust, i need a RELEASE from it,cause when i get tempted, im really afraid to pray..i feel like i failed him again and again and again can you
I am truly sorry that you are going through this, friend. The best advice I can give you is to trust in God. Be a radical Christian. To be radical in Christianity means to trust in God for EVERYTHING that you confront in this life. Letting go and believing that God has full control of what He’s doing and being aware that He is knowledgeable of what needs to be done to get everyone to the right place He needs them to be. It means to believe that God has and is going to be the solution to your troubles. Through the trials and triumphs, He’s with you. Your dad my have a porn addiction but it’s just the enemy that wants to hold him down and break your family apart. But know that God is STRONGER and BIGGER and WISER and TALLER and AWESOME-ER than anything the enemy can throw your way. You have the One who is Able on your side. Ask Jesus to save your family. You need to tie, bind rebuke and reprimand the enemy from your household. The Bible tells us that we have power to speak words of Life and Death. The Bible also tells us that we have authority or the darkness. In your prayers, tell the one known as “the strong man” (the enemy) to depart from your families life, home and thoughts. Tell it to depart from your dad’s life and your mom’s life and also your own life. I want you to know that YOUR prayers are good enough. You have authority and above all things, You have God’s word. Read the Bible and pray everyday and claim your victory in Jesus name. And just be aware that when you do this, the enemy is going to get enraged at you and he is going to make problems worse at home as his final attempt to knock you out of the ring. When you see this happen, do not be alarmed. It simply means that God is moving through your prayers and it also means that you need to give in even more, pray even harder and even fast (sacrifice) from something that you normally do or use and spend that time with God. Show your faithfulness to Jesus and ask and believe that He can save your family, and He will.
Also, with the authority that God has given you, you need to break the chains of pornography in your dad’s life. Break the chains of stubbornness and rebelliousness. Simply say, “In this moment, I declare any chain of etc etc. broken in the life of my father, Spirit of heaviness OUT! By the power of the Name of Jesus! I command you to leave and depart from our lives and our home.”
Be clear in everything you say. Fill yourself up with God. Let some worship music play around your house to bring a peaceful atmosphere to your home. Encourage your dad to listen to something called, “The Daily Audio Bible” and “R12 Christian”
And pray for both your mom and dad persistently. Tell them both how much you love them and how much they mean to you. Spend a day with your dad and talk to your dad CALMLY when you are with him away from your mother and tell him that it hurts you that he does that. Tell him that God has better for you. Tell him that God has a plan for your family and that God wants to strengthen the relationship he has with your mom (his wife). Tell him that you love him despite what he does and that you forgive him. And just continue praying for him.
Stay on your game, don’t give up hope and keep trusting in God, things WILL change.
I’ll be praying for you, kid.
The BEST is truly yet to come. Believe it.
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10
I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you. - Luke 10:19
Anonymous asked: Hey, me and my friends love reading smut fiction and two of us are pure christians. Is it wrong? The thing is I read smuts that are straight: boyxgirl. The rest of my friends like reading gay porn fiction, even my christian friend. And sometimes they even watch gay porn, I dont watch porn at all. I'm disgusted by it. So what we are doing is wrong or what? Sorry, I'm just confused. And btw I'm just 15 and all of them and 14. So is it bad?
I’m guessing, “smut fiction” is just sugar coated for porn fiction.
It doesn’t matter whether you read it, watch it, or what type of porn it is
Porn is Porn is Porn.
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery’; but I say to you, that everyone who looks on a woman to lust for her has committed adultery with her already in his heart.” - Matthew 5:27-28
“Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body.” - 1 Corinthians 6:18
“Therefore consider the members of your earthly body as dead to immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed, which amounts to idolatry.” - Colossians 3:5
Jesus tells us to be sexually pure, note that in Matthew 5:28 He says that to even look at a woman lustfully is to commit adultery with her. When you’re reading smut books, in your mind you’re imaging what’s happening. So, yes! what you’re reading is sinful!
Anonymous asked: I found out my dad watches porn. I was flipping through his ipod touch once and saw it, and have seen it several times since. I doubt my mom knows, but I don't know what to do about it. I put up a network-wide filter which should hopefully stop it at home, but I don't know if I can do anything else besides pray. Any suggestions?
Prayer is definitely key in this situation. Pray for your dad and ask God to touch your dads heart and to open up his eyes to what he is really doing, which is harming his relationship with his wife (I’m more then sure that your dad doesn’t want to do this). Something you might want to do is talk to your dad about it, if you feel uncomfortable doing this, then just sit down and talk to your mom about it, tell her your feelings about the situation and let her handle it or ask your mom if you can confront your dad about it with her.
Whatever it is you do, just make sure you pray before you confront your dad and just keep your dad in prayer and trust God.
here is a link to a helpful Christian website dealing with this type of stronghold.:
Anonymous asked: I'm having a problem with master bation and porn I want to stop but I don't know how I feel so ashamed and I'm scared to continue trying to find god because I'm blantly doing it
The most important thing above all is to keep seeking for God no matter what and never to stop doing that. Without God you being free from masturbation and pornography is never going to happen. God is the only one who can liberate you from all the things the world ties us down with. Trust God and don’t stop. There is nothing you can do or nowhere you can be to hide from God.
“Can anyone hide in secret places so that I cannot see him?” declares the LORD. “Do not I fill heaven and earth?” declares the LORD.” - Jeremiah 23:24
The truth is you really do need God, we all do. Ask Jesus to help you and set you free from these chains that have you tied down. Sincerely with all your heart and out loud pray and ask Jesus for this every single day and whenever you can.
“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” - Matthew 7:7
Jesus wants to set you free, but please don’t run and hide from Him. We’ll keep you in our prayers, friend. God bless you! We love you and God loves you more then you could ever imagine. :)
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