Anonymous asked: hey i just wanted to let you know that you guys are so so amazing running this blog !! + i also recommitted my life to jesus christ last night at a christian band gig aha. i got to meet the band after and there was a really strong connection with one of the guys. i felt like God was telling me that he is the One for me. idk whether or not to pursue him because he was quickly rushed away but i feel like i need to talk to him. your insight would be much appreciated :-) x

It’s not a very wise idea. I wouldn’t go for it. 

Jeremiah 29.11

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

12345iloveyu-deactivated2012051 asked: I'm starting to really hate myself for giving my bf head in the beginning... you're right, I shouldn't do it again. I have been praying to God for forgiveness, but I still don't feel right. Sometimes I just want to break down and cry bc I'll never be as pure and innocent as I used to be. I always wanted my husband to be my first but that's too late :(

It’s never too late to start over again. God has already forgiven and forgotten all about your sin you (jeremiah 31:34) but it seems to me as you need to forgive yourself. 

The reality is that you cannot change what has happened but you can change your future! :)

God wants the very best for you! And he’ll bring you your prince someday. You will have your day to shine but for now, focus on God with all your heart and abide to his ways and his will for your life. 

God is with you and he’ll never stop being there for you. never ever ever ever.

Push forward for the best is yet to come!  

imagodsmasterpiece asked: I really need some advice now. :( I dont know what to do. Yesterday it was confirmed that the Christian guy I was certainly praying for is now dating/courting a girl :(((( I don't know what to feel. What will I do now? Will I still pray for him even he's approaching a girl? Would I still hope? The Lord said that what ever I ask for in a prayer believe that I receive it and it will be mine Mark 11:24, Delight yourself into the Lord and He will give the desires of your heart Psalm 37:4 Please help

The bible says that God knows the plans he has for each of our lives. Plans to prosper and plans to bring out the best for our future. 

God has everything under control. If that guy is the one, then God will put him into your life. God will make a way! 

People think that we can ask God for everything and he’ll give it to us (and he could) but he won’t always. God is not some genie we rubbed out of a bottle who will grant us each of our wishes. No. If God was like that, everyone would take advantage of him. We wouldn’t really love God, we’d be using him and that’s not what it’s about. 

Take a very good look at that verse (Jeremiah 29:11) and meditate on it for a few minutes. 

It tells us that God wants to give us the very best.

Sometimes we want or what we desire to have or dream to get, isn’t the very best for us. Sometimes, the things we desire deeply, could lead us astray and cause us to stumble away from the one thing it’s all about. Jesus. 

Trust in him friend. It’s not worth desiring and dreaming of having things. Trust in God! He is able to do more than what we ask or could ever imagine! But he also would like for us to submit to his ways. He loves us so much and wants to give the very very best for each and everyone of us. 

The best is yet to come!.. but you gotta trust in Him completely.

Don’t settle for dodge when God wants to give you a lamborghini.

Anonymous asked: I am choosing to abstain from sex till marriage, but am having trouble finding a partner who is to. The closest thing i come across are guys who won't have sex, but engage in other sexual activities. what is your advice??

You don’t need a relationship right now. You already have one with Jesus.

Focus on God. You’ll have your time to shine someday.  He’ll bring the right one to you within time. :)

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. - Matthew 6:33

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. - Jeremiah 29:11

Anonymous asked: Is God already chosen the one who will be our husband/wife in future? Or is it our free will? Do you believe in predestined thing?

I feel as if sometimes we can get so caught up in a moment or so focused on what’s going to happen that we miss out on the very moment we’re in.

Wanting to spend our lives with someone is a great thing! But I feel like we tend to get so obsessed or so focused or even so worried that we end up moving in our own strength. And most relationships that are started within our own strength end up going down hill and have left millions in heartache and in some cases have even lead some astray from God. 

God wants to give someone special to each of us. Someone precise and patterned specifically for each of us. But in order to find that person, we need to rest in God and believe that he is going to graciously stumble that person into our life. 

Jesus said, “Happy and blessed is the person who trusts in the Lord.”

Nothing is impossible for God. All is possible for the one who believes and has faith. 

God will bring that person into your life someday. I wouldn’t even stress it. 

But in order to get there, you have to be able to handle a relationship with God first. And when the big guy upstairs sees that you can handle a relationship with him, then on his perfect timing, he’ll bring that person into your life.

And it may take sometime but you’ll see it was worth it. 

The BEST is yet to come. Don’t settle for anything less other than God’s best for you. 

wthrbug asked: Why is the woman not supposed to be the spiritual leader in a relationship?

The Bible clearly affirms the equality of men and women (Galatians 3:28), but it also tells us plainly that God has assigned the responsibility of spiritual leadership in the home to husbands.

1. Ephesians 5: Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
2. Colossians 3: Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.

It’s important to remember that a difference in roles doesn’t necessarily imply “unequal.” God doesn’t consider wives inferior, inadequate, less important or less responsible than husbands.

Besides, only an unwise man would reject his wife’s opinions and assistance. After all, the Lord has created her to be his best earthly resource.They both need each other to balance out what God intended for us when it comes to family. :)

Well that’s my two cents. lol I hope that made sense.

bless yah cool cat!

imagodsmasterpiece asked: hello, im a christian girl who had a crush on a certain christian guy on our church. Yes, Im praying for him. But recently why he keep on distancing when he knew that i have a crush on him? ><

From the looks of it, he seems to be really focusing on his relationship with God. Your friend’s on the right path! :D

You should focus your attention on God too! 

Focus on your first love, first! [GOD]. And someday- at the right time, God will bring the right person into your life. (Psalm 37:4)

Stay righteous!! Yah bogan kid you! :D :O :)